STUCK on a relationship roller coaster, going from one relationship to another?    FRUSTRATED with relationships that don't work out?                                                       DISCOURAGED that you can't seem to find “Mr. Right”? WORRIED you will never find a relationship that makes you happy?  UNSURE what successful marriage characteristics are? Like many other divorced women, are you still going through the steps of divorce recovery? Do you experience feelings like these? ·         Heartache ·         Anger ·         Betrayal ·         Rejection ·         Emotionally empty inside   Or if you were the one to initiate your divorce, perhaps you feel: ·         Guilty ·         Trapped by ongoing family problems, when all you want is to move on with your life   Inside, do you yearn to find the recipe for a happy marriage? Wouldn’t it be wonderful to get it right the next time, and create a marriage with emotional, spiritual fulfillment and connection with your best friend, the husband of your dreams?  Wouldn’t it be wonderful to feel LOVED, HONORED and CHERISHED for being you?

You no longer need to stay stuck  on a Relationship Roller Coaster.  You no longer need to keep repeating your cycle  of relationship pain.  You Can:   ·         Get off the Relationship Roller Coaster ·         End your relationship problems ·         Gain the personal resources and skills you need  to obtain the keys to a successful marriage ·         Learn what successful marriage characteristics are ·         Uncover the truth about divorce and remarriage   I understand a divorced woman’s pain and longing well, having myself spent previous years in that place of yearning and searching.  I read many books and saw other therapists in my quest to heal two previous marriages, both of which painfully ended in divorce.  That was my past experience.  I am now happily married to a wonderful man, who adores me, even with my humanness.  Larry is the perfect match for me.  We have a soul-filled, heart-centered union; he is the man of my dreams.           I have distilled the best of what I have learned from over twenty-five years of professional and personal searching, study and inspiration into a SPECIALIZED program to empower other divorced women to create your own real-world dream marriage.    Through   I will help you:                                 "Happily Ever After!  is a forward-thinking, well-rounded program for finally understanding and exiting our seemingly endless cycles of relationship pain, and replacing them with cycles of fulfillment and conscious relating.   It has the potential to heal not just the relationship struggles we've experienced personally, but inter-generational ones as well.   Debra’s use of transformational methods is very exciting and promises a faster route toward living from that cleaner, clearer place.  Kudos to Debra for creating this program. I await her forthcoming book, Cinderella Wisdom:  Five Secrets for Creating Your Dream Marriage in the Real World, with eager anticipation!" Dr. Jasmine Roloff, JSD  CLC, CWC Life Coach San Francisco, CA Heal your broken heart Complete the steps of divorce recovery & finish your divorce for good   Regain your feelings of self-esteem  and womanly self-confidence Learn to distinguish a healthy relationship  from an unhealthy one   Discover how to nuture a good relationship   Feel confident, relaxed and at ease being YOURSELF in dating relationships    Find and HEAL the underlying reasons & hidden causes of your relationship struggle cycle     Learn how to ATTRACT a good man     Develop positive techniques for dating after divorce Discover successful marriage characteristics and learn the recipe for a happy marriage                                 News                Looking for the latest tips and              Transformational Self-care resources? New FREE Article:  How NOT to Create the Marriage of Your Dreams in Seven Easy Lessons, Part I.  Read it here. New Audio Available SOON! The NUMBER ONE Secret to Helping Your Children Get  Through Your Divorce   How to Heal Your MONEY Problems!  Virtual CD NOWAvailable in "Debra's Store".            Upcoming Events Please join me for these fun, insightful and transformative classes, workshops and other events.  Just click the link to go to the Calendar to learn all the details! August 7, Teleseminar ~                  Details coming soon! Sept 21    Cruise into Balance CRUISE!

“But what if I’ve been to therapy before, read books, and attended workshops, and I am still stuck?” That’s a great question! It is understandable that you may be feeling frustrated, discouraged and depressed that you are still experiencing so much relationship struggle and pain.  Many of my clients have felt the same way in the beginning. What my clients have found as we work together is healing from their feelings of frustration, powerlessness, discouragement and depression. As we work through their personalized program, they feel freed from the pain of their past unhappy marriages. They have found healing on a deep inner level from the sources of their relationship pain. They experience restored self-worth and self-confidence in themselves as women.  They begin the process of rebuilding their lives and become emotionally ready for healthy dating relationships. As we continue working together, women find they can tell the difference between those relationships that are healthy from those that are not. They have found they are attracting healthier relationships. My clients have found greater confidence and ease being themselves in social situations. They become wise from the insights they gain into their past and their past experiences, while the painful memories fade, because the pain is gone. Women who have worked through a personalized program with me have found answers and feelings of empowerment through learning the skills they needed to intentionally and consciously co-create a happy marriage. And they have found they felt safe to feel excited about the unfolding, while trusting the timing, because they learn to trust and have confidence in themselves, while engaging the process to achieve their dreams.  One client commented as she neared the end of her program,  “I tried everything before I started seeing you.  I did hypnotherapy and saw all kinds of other therapists.  You helped me become free of stuff that had kept me stuck for years, and discover a whole new dimension to my life and marriage.  Working with you changed my life!”

“I feel so discouraged!  Only a few of my friends are divorced, and my other married friends have problems, too.   Why me?” It is understandable if you feel discouraged, trying to figure out why you ended up getting divorced.   Many women privately wonder if something is wrong with them!  They feel like they have tried everything to find a great guy and create a happy marriage, and it hasn't worked out. We as women are often prone to believe that it must be our fault, right?  As we have worked together, other women have found the answers and solutions are within them, in the sense that they discover the HIDDEN underlying reasons for their patterns of relationship pain and struggle. They have found that these hidden reasons were undiscovered and unaddressed until they worked with me.   Often, they find their hidden reasons go back one or more generations in their family, and are patterns they have inherited, so to speak. Once these hidden reasons are uncovered, my clients have found they can be easily healed through the work we do together.  They step off the relationship roller coaster.     Susan* was such a client.   When she learned about Happily Ever After!, and the idea that hidden patterns in her life could be at the root of the reasons that none of her previous relationships had worked out, she got excited and got right to work. Susan kept her focus on her intention of healing her painful patterns, and creating new patterns of conscious relating in their place.  She created a new foundation for relationship success in place of her old patterns of pain and struggle. Today, at 43, Susan is happily married to a wonderful man, and together they are consciously creating their dream marriage. *This client's name has been changed to protect her privacy & confidentiality.

If you have been struggling, trying to get off the Relationship Roller Coaster, your struggle will end here.   You can find the support, answers, healing, hope and confidence you need to step out of relationship struggle and into joy.     Please take some time to look around this site.   There is much here to help you find answers, support, and healing for your relationship pain. To receive timely inspiration and practical help for getting over problems in your relationship, finishing the steps of divorce recovery, dating after divorce and tips for a happy marriage, click here to subscribe to Creating Joy!   This timely e-zine (electronic newsletter) is sent approximately monthly, and is full of practical inspiration and timely help.  A yearly subscription is valued at $50.00;  Creating Joy! is currently FREE, and the ideas I share are simple to implement.    Sign up today, and with your subscription confirmation, you will receive the link to a special reprint of my article, THE Question that Will Transform Your Relationship! Warmly, Debra  Debra Gordy MS MRET Transformational Relationship Therapist & Coach

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